Feel Sexy, Be Sexy
Do not let the photo-shopped celebrity images get you down. You can still feel and be sexy for the rest of your life. Being sexy has everything to do with feeling sexy. The following are five things that you can do to boost your sex appeal:
Accept yourself
Accept yourself as you are. The more comfortable you are with yourself, the more comfortable others are going to be around you. Get comfortable with the idea that you are sexy and wonderful just the way you are.
Be confident
Sex appeal begins with self-confidence. Pay attention to your posture. Pay attention to what you say to yourself and others about you. If you do not feel confident, try acting as if you were confident and watch your confidence blossom.
Go walking
Improving your fitness will help you to feel better about yourself and help you feel more willing to show off a little. Improved fitness will increase your energy levels and also give your confidence a boost.
Pamper Yourself
Have you had a manicure or pedicure lately? Even a bubble bath at home with music and candles can help you feel a little sexier. Get your hair done, have a massage, find ways to pamper yourself and remind yourself that you are sexy and worth it.
Accentuate your best features
Learn to love your body and play to your assets. Wear clothes that make you look your best. Get rid of those that make you look and feel frumpy. Looking sexy does not mean that you have to look 16-go for classy, rather than skimpy.
Remember you do not have to be perfect to be sexy.
Susan Derry, B.Ed., M.S.Psy., R.P.C.
Professional Counselor & Life Coach
Co-author of Marriage Prep: Beginnings a downloadable marriage preparation course
Offers a free Nurturing Marriage Ezine
Co-author of Intimate Sex: Manual for Lovemaking, a sex manual for couples
Accept yourself
Accept yourself as you are. The more comfortable you are with yourself, the more comfortable others are going to be around you. Get comfortable with the idea that you are sexy and wonderful just the way you are.
Be confident
Sex appeal begins with self-confidence. Pay attention to your posture. Pay attention to what you say to yourself and others about you. If you do not feel confident, try acting as if you were confident and watch your confidence blossom.
Go walking
Improving your fitness will help you to feel better about yourself and help you feel more willing to show off a little. Improved fitness will increase your energy levels and also give your confidence a boost.
Pamper Yourself
Have you had a manicure or pedicure lately? Even a bubble bath at home with music and candles can help you feel a little sexier. Get your hair done, have a massage, find ways to pamper yourself and remind yourself that you are sexy and worth it.
Accentuate your best features
Learn to love your body and play to your assets. Wear clothes that make you look your best. Get rid of those that make you look and feel frumpy. Looking sexy does not mean that you have to look 16-go for classy, rather than skimpy.
Remember you do not have to be perfect to be sexy.
Susan Derry, B.Ed., M.S.Psy., R.P.C.
Professional Counselor & Life Coach
Co-author of Marriage Prep: Beginnings a downloadable marriage preparation course
Offers a free Nurturing Marriage Ezine
Co-author of Intimate Sex: Manual for Lovemaking, a sex manual for couples
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